Were your parents your enemies, did they unknowly mess you up and prevent you from succeeding, or attaining?

did your parents undermine everything you were doing, and prevent your success and education, did your parents, never grow,but remained in the same dead end lives they choose, and always threw the fact up to you that they were your parents, and gave you life, any people here who have or had parents,who underminded your life, and so messed you up that you could do nothing as an adult,